What is Wrong?
I’ll Become More Empathetic if I Forgive Others
Why is it so difficult to let others go? Usually, because we believe that they are 90% to blame for the problem, I am not as bad as they are. So I start to carry the load of other people’s actions. If my ego is sufficiently hurt, I will feel a sense of justice and correction: “I know I am right,” “That is not fair,” etc. However, if I start to forgive truly and from the bottom of my heart, then this kind of attitude and feeling starts to go away. I’m still modest, and asking for forgiveness will make me more approachable. I simply let go and continued to be light, not carrying any regrets or anger.
Thinking Right
Everything is based on how we think. I will be light if I think properly. I’d be heavy if I thought wastefully. Wasted contemplation can be harmful. They are a time-waster. They make the past vivid, which causes me to lose focus on the present and consider the future.
Living Life on the Surface
In an ideal situation, the thoughts that run through my mind should be exactly those that “I would like,” and “I want.” We exert this control over our thoughts, but it is not complete, and it is only sometimes. Our thoughts more often turn into reactions to what is happening outside of us when we become immersed in our everyday activities. When they spiral out of control, our lives start to go in a random direction. Things don’t turn out as we might have hoped as a result. Then we get into the habit of blaming other people and external factors or try to make sense of our suffering by telling ourselves we aren’t good enough or strong enough. These two coping mechanisms frequently work together. The issue is that both are cover-ups, which prevents us from seeking a long-term fix.
In this way, we frequently lead very surface-level lives and don’t spend the necessary time trying to figure out what is wrong on the inside. Deeper issues are still concealed there. I never pause as I go from one scenario of life to another, including eating, watching television, going to college, getting married, changing jobs, purchasing a new car or home, etc. All of these things are necessary for living, but if I make them the center of who I am and the basis of my existence, I risk skating on life’s surface without connecting with its essence. As time goes on, a shallowness within grows. The thought that “there must be more to life than this” then keeps growing within you. I then discovered that my connections were not developing as I had thought and that they were shallow.
Message for the day
Enthusiasm is the breath of true life.
What it tells you: Living life, living each moment with enthusiasm, is truly living life. Everything benefits from enthusiasm: the quality of life, the quality of work, and the quality of relationships. When there is enthusiasm, everything available is recognized and used to its full potential. Enthusiasm spreads to others, inspiring them to do their best and enrich their lives.
What you should experience: When I’m excited, I can enjoy everything that comes my way. The most difficult obstacle appears to be a game to me, and I breeze through it without difficulty. Confidence grows in me and gives me the courage to be the best at everything I do. I gradually increase my own potential and progress steadily toward success.
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